Note: The following is a copy of the weekly email that hits the inboxes of everyone who attends Compass Church and who don’t mind reading my bunkum.
The theme of this “thoughts” installment is: Deadlines – A love-hate relationship. After lots of thinking, typing, rethinking and retyping, today I hit the “send” button on the first draft of our “Reach 101” class that will kick off our Life360 initiative. Life360 is our Spiritual Development Pathway – our intentional effort of making disciples (you know, turning atheists into missionaries, agnostics into apologists, and skeptics into martyrs!).
Well, I can tell you this: without the deadline it wouldn’t be done… some other priority would have gotten in the way. I’ll admit, there were times that I thought, “This is an artificial deadline… arbitrarily set by our staff. Who cares? What are they going to do, fire me?”
But we all know it’s so-called “little things” that matter. In fact, it really comes down to credibility, which, as these guys put it, can be defined as: DWYSYD – Do What You Say You Will Do.
Credibility is a powerful trait – I like to think of it as integrity in action. When you do what you say you will do, you bring peace to the soul of everyone you encounter. How’s that? Well, because they know that at the end of the day you’re going to show up. You’re not gonna flake, you’re won’t bail, be late, make excuses, “forget,” or do anything else but exactly what you promised, for better or worse. That brings substance to your word and stability to your life and the lives of those who depend on you.
In Proverbs we’re told, “A person who promises a gift but doesn’t give it is like clouds and wind that bring no rain.” (Prov. 25:14). Our word is a gift promised, and we should be careful before offering it.
So this is where deadlines come in and where morality can tend to get fuzzy – at least for me. You see, in a real sense, credibility is service to those in our lives, and in an indirect way it is love. It’s fighting our own laziness, distraction, and complacency so that someone else can enjoy the benefit of our word, rather than experience the disappointment of us not living up to it.
In saying this I run the risk of sounding self-congratulatory. After all, the whole idea came up because I met a deadline and I made no bones about reminding everyone that I am awesome. But the truth is, sadly, I think I surprised myself; and the feeling of satisfaction that I got from not only being done but, really, honoring my word, was enough to make me want to write about it.
So who’s counting on you this week? Is there an opportunity to surprise them (as I may have undoubtedly surprised some of our staff today) by delivering, exactly the way you said you would? Can punctuality and follow-through be free gifts to those who are relying on you.
So you’ll be at Compass this Sunday, right? Good. I believe you.